Self esteem

In life we often find ourselves not having enough self esteem and it can be sometimes a problem.
Why do i say it can be a problem? Well you know when you have that special something that you really want and you just don't know how to go about going after it and you feel a fear of not getting it.
For instance i some time ago had a crush on a girl that actually was my friend, but regardless of how hard i try to fight against the feelings i had for her i just couldn't. So one day as usual she ask me to take her halfway as she was on her way home and as we walked and came where we had to say goodbye, she confronted me and wanted to know what my story was, because when i actually found out that i had feelings for her i started avoiding her.
So there i was standing surprised of how she talked with me and she kept insisting that i tell her...

As we stand there and i tried to explain to her what really happened, i just got tired of explaining myself and then i just came out and told her that I'm actually in love with her. It was so hard for me to tell her, but as i did i could see that she were surprised at what i said and just when i thought it were over and done... She told me that she actually were in love with me too and it then changed everything.

I could go on and tell you the rest of it, but then i wouldn't finish now. What i want to get across is that one should not let fear get a hold of you.

Self esteem can get you allot of things, you just have to use it.

Till next time, Ciao!!!

Being a young Man

Being a young man in a small town such as Upington is or can sometime be very hard, because there is only one thing that's constantly on your mind and can't really escape it… and that is you need to SURVIVE .

Yeah that's right survive, I mean Upington is a great place to live in and the people here is even great to live with. But in any country or town you have your troubles that would eventually come your way and by that I mean quite a few. The things a young man such as myself have to go through in life are some of the following:

You grow up, go to school and there at school you face challenges such as peer pressure,  mixing up with the wrong crowd, getting used by a girl you thought you like etc. And then you finish school and now if you're not going to college or furthering your studies you'll have to find yourself a job. Finding a job can be at times very difficult and hard, but if you do find it you then just add up to your troubles and by that I mean you most probably have to support someone like your mother, your kids, your girlfriend or just someone that's close to you. At times you then find yourself not being able to provide for your love one's as they aspect you to and then it creates even more troubles for you.

Well what I'm getting at is that one should just prepare ourselves for the worst and just deal with it as it comes…and then people go around and telling you " you are young, you don't have anything to complain about " YEAH RIGHT….

Well I just wanted to get that off my chest.

Till next time, CIAO !!!    

Respect for Your Partner

It sure is a great feeling to be in love and to be in a relationship,to have that special someone in your life

that just make you feel good and to know that there are someone that love you too.

But what happens if that spark is lost or is just fading away due to certain issues ?

Well i`ve learned a long time ago that no matter how rocky your relationship may seem, there's always

a way to solve a problem. 

The thing about being in a relationship is that you should always Respect your partner regardless what

and you should at all times be able to show your partner that Respect.Sometimes its not enough to just

knowing something,you have to see it and experience it

If respect is there the relationship have a more stronger chance of lasting a bit longer and another thing

it the two of you will more likely be able communicate more effectively.

So respecting each other should be to start with the foundation of your relationship. I mean being in a re-

lationship should be more than just hugging,kissing and having fun... compromises must be made.

Its nice to be in a Relationship,but remember that you should start off by Respecting your partner

Till next time, CIAO !!!   

Success VS Failure

In life there are only one goal that most people work towards, and that is Success. I mean who would willingly not want to be successful... It does not matter how or in which way, but you do strive for it even if you might not realize it at some point.

Failure on the other hand is something we don't want at all. We will do what we can to avoid it, but as we all know it is something that can at some point be unavoidable. Life has and is teaching us everyday that there is no success without first failing.
Persistent on the other hand is the best way to guarantee success, no matter how many times you fail.

Perseverance is and always will be the key to success.

Till next time, Ciao

Life trough a young man's eyes | By Harold Touches

LIFE TROUGH A YOUNG MAN’S EYES

So here I am sitting here and trying to write something useful, but all I actually can think of is how my life is such a waste at times and how I sometimes find it difficult to do something about it. Yeah I know it’s pathetic of me to sit and mope about my failures and mistakes, funny enough I never seem to lose my sense of faith if I may put it that way. You may not believe it, but like many people I have this believe that things will get better and I will get what I want in life and I guess it’s just a matter of time before I make my breakthrough.

You’re probably wondering by now what I’m trying to say. Well the thing is just that I have a very different perspective of life and the way I see it …It’s simply just what you give, what your efforts is that you make towards what you want in life and what you make of what you have. Life for all of us can sometimes be cruel and unfair, but those cruel and unfair times that we go trough don’t last forever and we don’t have to face them again. The thing about life or rather the beauty of it is that it is very optional in so many ways. We often are face with choices that we have to make and as you know it’s usually the hard ones that occur to us… and the one’s that have complications attach to them, complications that we don’t want.

I always say that life is the best teacher that one can have, but it is what one makes with those teachings that count and how you implement them in your life that matter. So my failures and mistakes today it’s simply the consequences of my own actions and choices that I’ve made. It’s scary how optional life can get, but what a waste of time and energy it would be if we live our lives scared of choices and consequences… it is exactly those things in the end when all is over that will  make us stronger and well armed for life.

So now that I’ve figured what the reason behind my failures and mistakes are, I sure will from now on try to make right choices and avoid unwanted consequences.

I’m Harold Touches and this is what I had to say …this time.

Always strive for improvement, because after that perfection will come to you.

Till next time… CIAO!

A qoute about life | By Harold Touches.

Here's a qoute of mine i very much believe in.

"Just when you think you know someone you end up not knowing that person at all"
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No matter What| A Poem by Harold Touches

No matter what

I know i can
i will become a independent man
i don't care what people say
aslong as i believe in
what i pray
what i want i will be
and everyone will see
i'm not gonna make any mistakes
i will do whatever it takes
No matter what
If i have me and myself as a team
i will get everything that's in my dream
what i want i will achieve
and i will continue to believe
i'm not gonna sit back and think it's fine
no, i'm going for what's mine
and i'm not going to stop
until i reached the finished line
it won't be a flop
i will get it back
No matter what.

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